Saturday, September 6, 2008

Everything I Need to Know I Learned from Little House on the Prairie: Part 2

Let me first begin by directing you to yesterday's story, the original Little House post. It may remind you, also, of this post, where I uncovered the 'secret' to our financial discipline --- reading Dave Ramsey's The Total Money Makeover! Such sage advice - from the 19th century (Little House) to the 21st (Dave Ramsey).
Yesterday was the twins' 7th birthday! We celebrated with their friends with separate parties in the month of August --- the boys saw Clone Wars and the girls watched Cheetah Girls One World. On their birthday, then, we celebrated with our family here at home. Although our house remained (relatively) clean from our neighborhood party last weekend, I still faced a few, shall we say, "problem areas" yesterday in an effort to prep the house for visitors - even those who love and know us well enough to know what our home looks like on a regular basis! I still like to maintain the image of cleanliness and organization. Even when they really know my truly perpetual state of dirt and disorganization!

The twins were off to school and Baby S napped. But Meiners was home yesterday and awake. Wide awake. And wanting some attention. My first few reactions were to put him off. Send him on his way. And eventually grow a little snappy as I valiantly tried to pick up scattered toys and stacks of papers and everything else he innocently got into as I came before and went behind him picking and picking and picking up.

Then, I paused, stopping myself from a full-fledged Mommy verbal assault. I thought, 'what would they have done in the days of Little House?' And just as suddenly, an idea formed in my head. It began to resemble something like this:


Meiners learns the art of folding laundry






Meiners learns to make the sink FLY





Meiners gets real tools


Laura and her sisters worked alongside their parents. They learned to manage a home and work the land at an early age. Shoot. I remember driving my dad's Chevy pick-up through ditches to the fields when I was the twins' age to deliver lunch from my grandmother to 'the guys.' Even Pioneer Woman's kids continue this same 'tradition' of driving feed trucks and hauling hay. So why not teach my 4 year-old that he has worth and is an integral part of his 'modern-age' (suburban, middle class) family? He had the time of his life! And maybe the laundry took a little bit longer than usual. But we accomplished it all! Which is more than I could have said had I melted down in stress and unreason and then bathed in my own guilt!

Yup. I still have a lot to learn. Good thing I'm watching those Little House reruns!

(Wow! The resemblance is uncanny...)


13 comments:

Frizzy and Bird said...

I LOVE LITTEL HOUSE!!! I'm not sure but I think you can actually buy the TV series on video these days. Something to think about as a time saver but maybe not money saver. I'll be keeping this in mind as it's brilliant. I too have changed my approach with YaYa from picking up around her and behind her too asking her to help mommy. She too thought it was a blast. For how long I don't know. She thinks pushing buttons on the washer and dryer is too fun as is putting the laundry in and taking it out for me.

Frizzy and Bird said...

Oops! I meant to say Little House not Littel House.

Shelley said...

You know what? I loved little house when I was growing up and I have been spoken to by God through your blog today about having meltdowns. It seems like I am doing that more and more lately and I needed a word. Strange how you can get those when you're listening.
Thanks for the blog. I needed it.

JourneytoFamily said...

Thanks for stopping by via BATW the other day. Glad you know now that the purple house is in Cali. :)

I must say, I don't think I've ever seen an episode of Little House on the Prairie. I think I might be the only one who can say that.

Becky Welch said...

Ma would be proud!!!! Keep these up! I love them!

AVTCOACH said...

You go! And, look at the language of the home he learned in the process. Using daily routines for development is a teaching trademark for what I do and I applaud you! Plus, look what a keeper of a husband he will be!

Caroline said...

Okay, I'm confused. Those people in the picture look exactly like the Little House actors. Crazy! That's the best part about the post - the picture. Awesome! And way to go gettin' the Meiners to help with the cleaning. His wife will appreciate this day in years to come.

Renata said...

I remember my parents reading us little house when we were children, but I haven't seen any episodes - it sounds wonderful though. Love the idea of making the kids work alongside the parents - mine have some jobs of their own, but I'm sure they're capable of doing much more.
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lfamily5 said...

I LOVE IT! Little House on the Prairie is the way shows should be! I love the pic of Meiners cleaning the potty - remind him of that when he is a teenager!

emily said...

You. Crack. Me. UP! I have Season 6 on DVD. Don't know why Season 6. Just because that was the one the used bookstore had. And I love your tagline under your header. Very clever. And so true :)

Octamom said...

Oh yeah baby! That's how we roll!!!

Love it, love it--and the picture is hystericalllllllll!!!!
Blessings!

Holly said...

I agree with you 100%--we should teach our children to share in the responsibilities of the home--and when they are young. Your pictures are so funny--and sweet too.

I LOVED Little House and desperately wanted to be Laura. My daughter and I are reading On the Banks of Plum Creek aloud, she is picking up on how times used to be and I am getting some good reminders too! :)

Breanne said...

I love the pictre!!

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